The annual Weekend to Remember at Kingsmill Resort in Williamsburg kicks off tomorrow night, November 20th, and it is a complete sell-out with 500+ registered attendees! Of those, 40 couples are military. What we need now are couples willing to lead HomeBuilders small groups. Would you be willing to join us in the effort to get your group on the map?
Our objective is to have HomeBuilders groups already identified during the conference so couples interested in continuing the study of their marriage can connect with you quickly. Please follow this link to register your group and “Get on the Map!
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The Weekend to Remember, FamilyLife’s premier marriage seminar, is selling out fast, with 75% of conference seats already reserved, so you need to get yours SOON!
Military Couples: FamilyLife appreciates you for your faithful service and understands the challenges of your demanding lifestyle. But more than just appreciating you, they want to help in a significant way, by seeing that all available military couples, married and engaged, attend a Weekend to Remember. FamilyLife is so committed to this goal, that they offer a military discount to any active duty, Guard, or Reserve couple. Click here to register online and receive your discount. Conference details for the Williamsburg event, now just 30 days away, are also available at this site.
But don’t take our word for it. See what others have said:
“There is hope after all and we are on the right path travelling together. We are talking. We are sharing. And we are forgiving!” — Military Wife – married 3 yrs
“It has enhanced our reconnection after spending 9 months apart last year due to a Navy deployment. It should be mandatory! In fact, we are sending both sets of our parents who have been married 40 years ” — Military wife–married 9 yrs
“It provided tools to improve our communication, opened new lines of communication, brought us closer together and gave us hope.” Senior Navy NCO – married 15 years. “We realized we were not alone.” Navy reservist — married 4 years “We have learned communication skills that we didn’t have and we have learned to put each other first!” — Navy Wife — married 9 years
“Since my husband’s return from 12 months in Iraq last March, I’ve felt an emotional distance between us – a wall that wouldn’t come down. This weekend knocked down that wall! 
” – Navy Wife
“This weekend we were praying about re-enlisting or getting out. It was encouraging to talk to other couples who are thriving after years in the military! We don’t hear that a lot from most people – and it was exactly what we needed to hear. We had never heard of Military Ministry. What a surprise and a blessing to have this support this weekend! Thank you.” – Army Wife
This conference opened up the communication between my wife and I. It has helped steer our marriage back on track and I am excited – and nervous – to get back home and implement the things I have learned.” Husband — married 4 yrs
“It re-opened some closed lines of communication. We are talking and sharing like never before. We are so much closer. I love my wife!” — Pastor — married 9 yrs
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FamilyLife announced an enhanced plan to support American military marriages. “Defending the Military Marriage” initiative encourages soldiers, sailors, airmen, Marines, guardsmen and reservists and their spouses to participate in marriage enrichment programs offered by chaplains at military posts around the country. To provide resources to military marriages worldwide, FamilyLife has set up a dedicated website that offers resources specific to military marriages, as well as a downloadable sample of the HomeBuilders: Making Your Marriage Deployment Ready small group study, at www.FamilyLife.com/MilitaryMarriage.
“We want to do whatever we can to support military marriages,” said FamilyLife President, CEO and Co-Founder Dr. Dennis Rainey. “We recognize and revere the tremendous responsibility and stress placed on our servicemen and women, and that such a career can truly take a toll on one’s marriage, family, and soul.”
In addition to the FamilyLife Military Marriages website, FamilyLife also offers a special military rate of $69 per person ($60 off the regular price). To register, military couples may call 1-800-FL-TODAY. For a complete list of the 100+ conferences nationwide, visit www.FamilyLife.com/Weekend.
“Making a marriage work is never easy, and it is difficult for any husband or wife to not ‘bring the office home,’” said Major General (Retired) Robert Dees, executive director of Military Ministry. “When ‘the office’ is a battlefield, and a couple isn’t equipped with the necessary tools to deal with those experiences, the separation and the fear of losing one’s life or one’s spouse, the results can be disastrous. In that spirit, FamilyLife and Military Ministry are committed to strengthening the bonds between the heroes who serve and the spouses they love.”
To date, over 380 articles have been published in major US newspapers and the WTR in Hawaii was featured on Honolulu TV station KHNL Channel 8 newscast as seen here.
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Studies focus on deployments, support to combat veterans and their wives’.
Area churches are announcing numerous small group studies starting in September and October–on both the Peninsula and Southside!
On the Southside:
First Baptist Church Norfolk is starting the following:
Wives of Combat Veterans Support Group
Combat Veterans Support Group
Military Wives Encouragement Group
Making Your Marriage Deployment Ready Small Group Study
On the Peninsula:
Poquoson Baptist Church will start a Making Your Marriage Deployment Ready Small Group Study on Wednesday nights beginning 7 October. Free childcare provided. To download a flyer follow this link: PBC Deployment Study.
Langley Air Force Base Chapels is planning to start small group studies on both the main base and at Bethel Manor Chapel this month. Details TBD. If you are interested in joining one of these groups, contact Dennis Trexler at
Dennis.Trexler@MilitaryMinstry.org or (757) 303-9280.
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Yes, it is football season again, but we just witnessed a powerful “kick-off” of our ministry year with the 4th Annual HomeBuilders On the Peninsula (HOP) Leadership Rally. We believe this August 29th dinner was a God-honoring event where 88 attendees from 34 different churches, chapels, and ministries networked, shared a meal, learned from three outstanding speakers, and enjoyed the opportunity to explore ideas for marriage enrichment ministry and outreach to area military.
The barbecue dinner was excellent, the table talk inspiring, and our three speakers cast a vision for what can be done to serve God “for such a time as this.” Navy Chaplain Bob Christian described his facilitation of four HomeBuilders Couples Studies® while the U.S.S. San Jacinto was underway for seven months. That’s a lot of marriage training while at sea! Chaplain Christian structured the studies to include the spouses at home—by using their email responses to questions submitted in advance of the weekly gatherings at sea. Lisa Wenschlag told how she used the Bible studies she received at last year’s HOP and experienced God’s leading to teach Loving Your Military Man at her church. Lisa and her husband, Jim, also teamed with their church leadership to use the movie Fireproof, begin HomeBuilders studies, and promote the two area Weekend to Remember conferences. Our evening’s final speaker was Mike Carkhuff. Mike and his wife, Carole, began Family Ministries within Military Ministry back in the 90s and have been instrumental in leading and guiding our efforts ever since. Mike challenged all of us to remain true to our calling as Christian leaders—to proclaim the gospel message and always to exalt the name of Jesus Christ in our ministry to marriages and military. We were amazed at how long these key leaders stayed around after the event to “connect” with one another. We are already making plans for next year’s HOP—August 28, 2010, Lord willing. The hope is also that other regions will catch the vision for this networking-friendly event.
One additional highlight of the evening was the participation of our FamilyLife partners, Keith and Trish Tully. Keith and Trish intentionally scheduled their trip from Little Rock and their city team’s training schedule to coincide with the HOP and six of their city team couples were able to join us for the event.
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This blog is the newest source of information for those in the Hampton Roads interested in continuing their Weekend to Remember experience with small group studies from the HomeBuilders Couples Series®. Participants can locate a study in their area and leaders can announce the start of a study or celebrate the successful completion of their latest group. Follow the links to download a list of existing studies or to learn more about HomeBuilders. Enjoy and let us know more ways we can be of help to you. We welcome new ideas!
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